My Son Comes First And She Won’t See It?

We’ve been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn’t have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he’s only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with – because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed – but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he’s the first child) I told her she’d have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can’t as my first responsibility is to my son – he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don’t want to upset him.
I’m going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I’m depressed). My wife said it’d be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I’m away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I’m going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn’t a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don’t see it this way. I’m prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won’t live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn’t want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous – my son is my life and I’ve only been with her for a short time – I can’t put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????

My Son Comes First And She Won’t See It?

We’ve been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn’t have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he’s only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with – because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed – but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he’s the first child) I told her she’d have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can’t as my first responsibility is to my son – he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don’t want to upset him.
I’m going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I’m depressed). My wife said it’d be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I’m away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I’m going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn’t a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don’t see it this way. I’m prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won’t live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn’t want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous – my son is my life and I’ve only been with her for a short time – I can’t put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????

Wife Won’t Accept Son Comes Before Her??

We’ve been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn’t have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he’s only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with – because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed – but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he’s the first child) I told her she’d have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can’t as my first responsibility is to my son – he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don’t want to upset him.
I’m going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I’m depressed). My wife said it’d be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I’m away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I’m going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn’t a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don’t see it this way. I’m prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won’t live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn’t want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous – my son is my life and I’ve only been with her for a short time – I can’t put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????

Does Any One Know Where I Can Get A 2007 Dodge Charger Nav Bezel?

i have navigation unit thats double din and the stock bezel in the charger doesnt fit the unit. I’ve looked all over Ebay and the web and cant find any place that has them instock please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Would You Delete My Youtube And Twitter, Myspace And Adult Sites And Block Sites Please And Naughty But K Mm!!?

not just yahoo, google,stuff like that “aol, ” any sites. but go to your google and close your account. and ban me without banning or deleting me in yahoo. Jai Ho. i don’t want weirdos or weird people to come please my twiitter gets ban in 30 days and 0 problems

The Financial Rally On Wall Street Will This Silence The Doom And Gloom Republicans?

http://dow-daily.blogspot.com/http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=2…

Can I Live Off Of Financial Aid?

In these tough times, everyone knows how hard it is to get a job. I want to get a job more than anything, and ive been trying for literally months. Ive sent out hundreds of resumes and applications and I am not getting anywhere. I want to go to school for elementery education and I was wondering, how much money can I get in federal loans, I know that I qualify for pell grants, and the last time I attended school, it was a vocational school, and I was able to get 8000.00 in loans to pay for it. But thats because that was how much the prgram costs. So can I get the federal loans for the purpose of living expenses? I guess the main question im trying to ask is: Do i decide how much money I take out in federal loans, or do they base it on income and stuff like that? Also what other types of loans can I get that dont depend on credit? And please dont tell me to apply for scholarships…..ive tried that avenue.

**need An Answer Asap** Filling Out Applications.what Does A Stock Associate Duty’s Include?

im filling out a pplication for rue21. im wondering what times do stock assocates work? also why do i want to work there. idk,cuz its a job?. i need to say something that will get me hired though. also ht do i lik about clothimg?fashion . do i say what i like(faded jeans, neat silkscreened t-shirts ect)?

Did You Know That Us Taxpayers Are On The Hook For $5 Trillion Of Debt From Fannie & Freddie And That It’s…?

“off the books” so to speak…like the Iraq war bills?
Liberals have been screaming that the IRaq war was not accounted for and is being “hidden” off the books.
This is EVEN more money….
BTW, what caused Fannie and Freddie to make so many bad loans?
And who was it that tried at least 6 times to get some kind of regulation in there to prevent this very thing?
Lastly, why did Barney Frank lie yesterday and say the the US taxpayers weren’t responsible for that debt?
Didn’t he help to create that debt?
excerpt…
House Financial Services Chairman Barney Frank caused a bit of an uproar Friday when he suggested the U.S. government does not guarantee the debts of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac.
Rep. Frank later recanted and backed a Treasury Department statement reassuring investors that, yes, Fannie and Freddie Mae debt is guaranteed by the U.S. government. “Going forward,” he said in a statement, we “will make sure that there are no implicit guarantees, hints, suggestions, or winks and nods…we will be explicit about what is and is not an obligation of the federal government.”
But after years of winks and nods, there’s no doubt that Fannie and Freddie now enjoy an explicit guarantee, according to most observers. The U.S. government placed Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac in conservator-ship in September 2008: “This means that the U.S. Taxpayer now stands behind $5 trillion of GSE debt,” according to the Congressional Research Service.
The problem is that $5 trillion of so-called agency paper is not treated as if it is a debt of Uncle Sam for accounting purposes, says Richard Suttmeier, chief market strategist at Niagara International Capital and ValueEngine.com.http://finance.yahoo.com/tech-ticker/u.s…

Did You Know That Us Taxpayers Are On The Hook For $5 Trillion Of Debt From Fannie & Freddie And That It’s…?

“off the books” so to speak…like the Iraq war bills?
Liberals have been screaming that the IRaq war was not accounted for and is being “hidden” off the books.
This is EVEN more money….
BTW, what caused Fannie and Freddie to make so many bad loans?
And who was it that tried at least 6 times to get some kind of regulation in there to prevent this very thing?
Lastly, why did Barney Frank lie yesterday and say the the US taxpayers weren’t responsible for that debt?
Didn’t he help to create that debt?
excerpt…
House Financial Services Chairman Barney Frank caused a bit of an uproar Friday when he suggested the U.S. government does not guarantee the debts of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac.
Rep. Frank later recanted and backed a Treasury Department statement reassuring investors that, yes, Fannie and Freddie Mae debt is guaranteed by the U.S. government. “Going forward,” he said in a statement, we “will make sure that there are no implicit guarantees, hints, suggestions, or winks and nods…we will be explicit about what is and is not an obligation of the federal government.”
But after years of winks and nods, there’s no doubt that Fannie and Freddie now enjoy an explicit guarantee, according to most observers. The U.S. government placed Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac in conservator-ship in September 2008: “This means that the U.S. Taxpayer now stands behind $5 trillion of GSE debt,” according to the Congressional Research Service.
The problem is that $5 trillion of so-called agency paper is not treated as if it is a debt of Uncle Sam for accounting purposes, says Richard Suttmeier, chief market strategist at Niagara International Capital and ValueEngine.com.http://finance.yahoo.com/tech-ticker/u.s…